Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go
I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now considered “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.
because a successful relationship requires falling in love many times...
...but always with the same person. ♥
you were once a stranger, now you are the only person i know like the back of my hand. you were once i had no emotions for, now you have the power to break my heart. you were someone i used to never hangout with, but now owns most of my time. you were someone that i thought i would never love, but now you own my entire heart. you were someone i once could live without, but now i wish to hold on forever. ♥
there always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. its human nature. its not wrong. but, when you're in a committment. you should discilipine youself. one may get attracted to numerous prospect and its okay. as long as you dont nurse the feeling and wont do something about it or even act on it. recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you can get from the 'cheap' thrills of attraction. +_~
I don’t want some relationship where we’ll be together for days, or even weeks, and then we’re suddenly done. I want to have a relationship where we’ll last and we’ll just know that we’re together even though we act as if we’re not. We may get into fights, have arguments, and even be mad at each other for several days, but that doesn’t mean I stopped liking you. Through those fights, arguments and days where i was mad, I grew stronger feelings for you. I not only realized how special of a person you are, but I realized that being with you is far better than being alone. I’d rather spend my life with you than being alone. I can’t believe that I have you, it’s too damn good to be true. But I want us to last and just realize that having each other is the only thing we’ll need and we’ll get through it all with our flaws, our fights, and even our fun times we’ll have. I’d like for you to stay for a long time and I’m hoping you will.
cause it is so much better to find someone who will change your life, rather than just your relationship status. +_+
i want a relationship, where you and i start talking and actually stay in contact. where you and i start hanging out and actually make time for each other. where you and i start getting to know each other and actually take the time to do it. where you and i start gaining feelings and actually make something out of it. where you and i would start fighting and actually work things out. where i would meet you and have you actually stay in my life.
keep this in mind, one day, im going to love you, your body, your smile, the way you walk, the way you talk, im going to love you. and you're going to feel confident and on top of the world. one day, you wont feel insecure because you have someone who loves you for who you are. and i think thats when you know its love. when instead of feeling like you have to hide your flaws and feel insecure and embarassed, you feel unashamed, free, secure, safe, proud, happy, confident. you feel loved. +_~
when i like someone, i tend to over think things and put meaning on every single move you make. i overlook your flaws and try to pick out your good qualities instead of the bad. everything about you suddenly becomes beautiful to me, and i learn to accept them no matter your imperfections. no matter what other people say,
i'll always have a good opinion of you. just hearing your name, and i automatically think you will always be the best out of everybody.
so, i want us to be comfortable with each other, i want us to see each other at our worst and still say i love you. i want to be able to wrap my arms around you, with you not wearing make-up, i want to say that you're beautiful and actually mean it. we can sit anywhere, dazed, butterflies rumbling through our tummies, sweaty palms and chap lips and it'll all be worth it just to be there. even if we never see each other as much, just know that every time i'm with you, its my favorite day.
my love for you is not measured by my hugs, kisses and attention, even those holding hands wont even work. i can show my love for you in my own simple ways
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