I agree with this meaning of L-O-V-E

‘I love you’ means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you’re in a bad mood or too tired to do things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. I love you means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping you feel the same way for me.

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

My Kinda Guy Part 3

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

we mistake sex for romance, guys are taught that pushing a girl against a wall is romance. sex is easy, you can do it with anyone. romance is when someone like walks into a room and they take your breath away. romance is when two people are dancing and they fit together perfectly. romance is when two people are walking next to each other and all of a sudden they find themselves holding hands, and they dont know how that happened.
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i know there are times when im actually hard to be with, you fall in love with someone who has so many problems and i just want to say thank you for being there for me despite the reasons not to. i have a lot of flaws that could have pushed you away but you're still there, trying to keep me.
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No matter how many arguments or disagreement we’d get into, I’ll still stick with you in the end. I don’t care how many times we get hurt, as long as we can prove to each other that we deserve to be forgiven. I might not see or talk to you as often as I’d like, but once we do. I can go on and on with you for days. Just something about you caught my full attention.

I hope this won't happen to us :(

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

You know that feeling of your heart dropping when you find out that your loved one has been trying to hide something from you? Yeah, not the greatest feeling in the world. It might not mean shit to you, but it sure means a hell lot to me. So save your sugar-coated bullshits for someone else. Come at me with one hundred percent honesty. The naked truth is always better than the best dressed lie.

my eyes don't light up when i hear your name anymore. i dont get chills when you walk by and my heart doesn't race when you smile at me. you dont get to me like you used to. you're just a bad memory in the back of my mind. so dont be surprised next time you make your way past me and i dont even glance your way. and dont bother trying to talk to me, you wont get a response. im over fighting the same losing battle. the saddest part is that you have no one to blame but yourself. i gave you every chance you could ask for. and you fucked up every time. now, i walk around with nothing but a smile on my face, and i laugh louder than ever before. looks like you've lost me.

not every sorry deserves an "its okay" in return.

THAT FEELING WHEN YOU'RE AFRAID

THAT FEELING WHEN YOU'RE AFRAID

there are times when the two of you are arguing about anything and she's mad at you.

you fear that someone else is making her happy while you two are not talking, and you can't make her smile because she's still annoyed at you.

the dreadful feeling that someone's "taking advantage" of her vulnerability and snatching her away from you while the two of you are not talking.

the creeps you're feeling when it's you who's mad at her, and knowing that someone's entertaining her and easing her mood while you're still irritated of her...

...but then you're trying to calm yourself and get rid of your grudge on her right away just so you'd be able to get to her ASAP rather than someone else, not because you don't trust her... but because you just love her that dearly and you're afraid that she'd be swept off her feet by someone else.

IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ENDED IN THIS STAGE

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ENDED IN THIS STAGE

STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage
Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move forward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better.

STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy Road
You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing. It doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.

STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky Mountain
You feel as if you’re hurt, depending on the circumstances. You were so sure that that person was “The One.” You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened, a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.

STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road
You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occurred, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved.”

My Kinda Guy Part 2

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

When you start to develop feelings for someone, you have no absolute control over it. So you can’t control who you fall for. And when you fall for someone, you feel every single emotion. You feel happiness, sadness, excitement, disappointment, love, hatred, heartbreak, and so much more. When you start to fall in love with someone you have to ask yourself, “is this person really worth it?” Worth all the emotion. Worth the risk of heartbreak. Worth everything.
its more likely for me to pick fights with you if i happen to like you. if i didn't care for you at all, then i wouldn't care so much for your actions either.
cause in the end, its not how long you stayed together that matters but how you loved each other even in the shortest period of time you spent together.
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i've always wanted one of those playful relationships because of the level of comfortability. you're both being yourself around each other, not giving a single care. you know everyone will probably be watching, but it feels like its only you two. she fears that she might end up in that water. i'd be doing these little gestures to trick her and hear her little voice whine. i'd be enjoying every minute of holding her and making her feel unsafe but safe at the same time. she knows i would never do it, but she's still scared. just like how we're both scared that one day, either one of us might end up walking away.
i want a relationship where i can be completely comfortable around the person i love. i want to be able to be silly around each other, call each other names and pick on each other without actually having someone's feelings hurt. i want to be able to tell them everything and anything that's on my mind. i want to be able to tell them my secrets, fears, and worries, not having to worry that they'll use it against me at any time and i'll do the same for them. i want to be in a relationship where we can act like little kids and just be able to have fun without any worries. we'll know when it's the time to be serious and when we can just be silly goofballs together.
so don't go looking for a relationship, desperation is not only a turn off but usually ends up with you settling for something less.

My Kinda Guy Part 1

Taken from my Clinical Instructor's Facebook Wall Photos. Mr. Go

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now considered “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.
because a successful relationship requires falling in love many times...
...but always with the same person. ♥


you were once a stranger, now you are the only person i know like the back of my hand. you were once i had no emotions for, now you have the power to break my heart. you were someone i used to never hangout with, but now owns most of my time. you were someone that i thought i would never love, but now you own my entire heart. you were someone i once could live without, but now i wish to hold on forever. ♥
there always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. its human nature. its not wrong. but, when you're in a committment. you should discilipine youself. one may get attracted to numerous prospect and its okay. as long as you dont nurse the feeling and wont do something about it or even act on it. recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you can get from the 'cheap' thrills of attraction. +_~


I don’t want some relationship where we’ll be together for days, or even weeks, and then we’re suddenly done. I want to have a relationship where we’ll last and we’ll just know that we’re together even though we act as if we’re not. We may get into fights, have arguments, and even be mad at each other for several days, but that doesn’t mean I stopped liking you. Through those fights, arguments and days where i was mad, I grew stronger feelings for you. I not only realized how special of a person you are, but I realized that being with you is far better than being alone. I’d rather spend my life with you than being alone. I can’t believe that I have you, it’s too damn good to be true. But I want us to last and just realize that having each other is the only thing we’ll need and we’ll get through it all with our flaws, our fights, and even our fun times we’ll have. I’d like for you to stay for a long time and I’m hoping you will.
cause it is so much better to find someone who will change your life, rather than just your relationship status. +_+


i want a relationship, where you and i start talking and actually stay in contact. where you and i start hanging out and actually make time for each other. where you and i start getting to know each other and actually take the time to do it. where you and i start gaining feelings and actually make something out of it. where you and i would start fighting and actually work things out. where i would meet you and have you actually stay in my life.
keep this in mind, one day, im going to love you, your body, your smile, the way you walk, the way you talk, im going to love you. and you're going to feel confident and on top of the world. one day, you wont feel insecure because you have someone who loves you for who you are. and i think thats when you know its love. when instead of feeling like you have to hide your flaws and feel insecure and embarassed, you feel unashamed, free, secure, safe, proud, happy, confident. you feel loved. +_~

when i like someone, i tend to over think things and put meaning on every single move you make. i overlook your flaws and try to pick out your good qualities instead of the bad. everything about you suddenly becomes beautiful to me, and i learn to accept them no matter your imperfections. no matter what other people say,


i'll always have a good opinion of you. just hearing your name, and i automatically think you will always be the best out of everybody.
so, i want us to be comfortable with each other, i want us to see each other at our worst and still say i love you. i want to be able to wrap my arms around you, with you not wearing make-up, i want to say that you're beautiful and actually mean it. we can sit anywhere, dazed, butterflies rumbling through our tummies, sweaty palms and chap lips and it'll all be worth it just to be there. even if we never see each other as much, just know that every time i'm with you, its my favorite day.

my love for you is not measured by my hugs, kisses and attention, even those holding hands wont even work. i can show my love for you in my own simple ways